Simple and easy way to happiness In a Relationship

The problem which we are going to address today is a very common one that has a highest record for creating misunderstandings, fights and sometimes have even proved to be the starting factor for a break up!. The general complain/problem in most of the relationship is "He/She doesn't spend enough time with me!I feel unloved and unimportant because of it".To find a solution for the problem that would last in your heart forever, let me take you to the fundamentals.When a man and a women walk into a relationship,its not because they are tired of spending time with their friends or family but to find a person,a special person for themselves whom they could turn to,expect to care,share and nurture.One may wonder,when the concept of relationship appear to be so simple why it is so difficult to hold everything together to make it a fairy tale?

That's because in this fast moving world people hardly find time to relax or spend it romantically.But let me remind you all,the reason we earn,we eat,we live is to have a life.And where will we find tat happiness if we get lost in pursuit of making money??
Lets get back to the topic, a relationship can be very much alive and filled with love if you are willing to spend just 30 minutes out of 1440 minutes per day.But the problem remains tat 90% of couples find it hard to spend tat 30 minutes.Basically there are 2 category of people in a relationship which is haunted by the above problem.One who is always busy with his work,not getting time to spend time with their partner and the other who always longs to spend time with their partner but never gets enough attention.This small problem creeps in makes enough space for hatred and anger by driving the love out of your heart.But let me also tell you this,the mistake is not one sided.You heard me,Its not one sided.Not spending time with your partner and also not asking your partner to spend time with you is a mistake.One could ask,"why do i have to ask?Can't they just understand without asking?"But the reality is most of us out there doesn't actually realize tat we are actually being so absorbed to work.Listen to me, there is nothing wrong in asking the person whom u love and who you feel is yours to show little more attention.On the other hand,for the people who don't find time to spend with their partner my sincere advice is, even though you work this hard and earn to keep your partner happy, its not going to make them happy.Instead spend some time with them,hold their hands,tell them tat you love them and tat you are working this hard for them and suddenly you will find them very understanding and supporting rather than shooting fireworks at you.Communication is all that is required.

The most rarest thing that you can find in this world is a heart that truly loves you and believe me,nothing in this world would compare to love, not even a ship full of money.A healthy dose of understanding and sacrifice from both the partners is all tat takes to make a relationship a fairy tale one.

Bottomline : Those who are too busy to spend time with their loved ones just try to find atleast little time to spend romantically rather than wasting lot of time fighting and worrying later.

Those who are too hesitant to ask for attention from their loved one,just try to open your window and throw out the ego and shyness and feel free to ask your partner to spend time.Afterall they are your love.

Remember,relationships are like plants.They will grow to be a tree and bear fruits only if you are willing to spend time to guide them,nurture them.Otherwise they will dry and die.

By,
Shriram Srinivasan